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How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 09:17

How does one succeed in life?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

That's it for today.

My boyfriend wants to break up over too many petty arguments. To me, they are molehills because I truly love him & don't really think twice about them. If he loved me would he work through it?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

If an abortion doesn’t affect you, why do people make it a big deal?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why is Bollywood failing?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Does not procrastinate.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

I caught my neighbor leaving his 12-year-old son home alone and he has not come back in 6 hours. Should I call CPS?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What I need from you?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What did someone say to you that instantly made you realize their life was in danger?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Do handsome guys intimidate women or people in general?

Procrastinates a lot.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Ask yourself:

What do feminists mean when they say they want to ‘normalize’ menstruation and its discussion?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.